Writing for young men
Honest Words for the road ahead.
Straight talk and practical tools for becoming a grounded, capable man -- without the noise, the gurus, or the performance.
Latest Essays
Your Son Is Watching Andrew Tate. Here’s What Actually Works.
You are right to pay attention, and you are not overreacting. You are also about ninety seconds away from doing the one thing most likely to make it worse. What the evidence actually says — and what to say instead.
How to Be More Masculine
Most of what gets sold as masculinity is a costume with a maintenance bill. Here’s the difference between performing it and having it — and what actually builds the second one.
What Is a Sigma Male?
The sigma male was invented in 2010 by a blogger, on top of a wolf hierarchy that was already wrong. Here’s where it came from, what it’s actually describing, and why it sells.